"I don't mind making jokes, but I don't want to look like one."
Marilyn Monroe
It's always an awkward situation when I'm questioned about my tendency to 'fix' myself up before leaving my house. Leaving my home looking like I had no idea that I'd be going out in public today is simply not something that I'm willing to do. You should feel comfortable when others see you. We all know that it can nerve-racking when you see someone and your only thought is 'why couldn't I have worn something else/brushed my hair/or look like her'. I understand that life is hectic and what you planned isn't always what occurs but even the slightest bit of tweaking makes a difference and can ease your nerves.
"There are no ugly women, just lazy ones."
Helena Rubinstein
Why not work to put your best foot forward? Looking your best or at least presentable takes a little work but it pays off. You'll feel better about yourself and people will want to be around you because chances are if you feel good you'll be in a better mood. You just have to take the time out of your schedule to do it. It gets easier as you progress.
So where exactly should you begin? Well, here are a few tips.
- Plan your outfits in advance.
- Groom yourself. This means wash your face and comb your hair.
- Invest in basic makeup. You know powder, mascara, lipstick, maybe even eyeliner.
- Pay attention to details. Clean your nails, moisturize your skin, and please wash/iron your clothes.
- Shop quality not quantity.
- Keep it simple. Chances are if you think it might be too much it probably is.
- Be prepared. Keep things like lotion, lip balm, mascara, & one go-to lip color on you or somewhere easily accessible.
- Know what looks good on you. If you're not sure ask for an honest opinion.
It doesn't have to be hard and it's not costly, trust me. I clearly don't make as much as I'd like to make but I don't have to look it. Take some pride in the way that you look. You're gorgeous and absolutely fabulous, so display that.
