Showing posts with label inspiration. Show all posts
Showing posts with label inspiration. Show all posts

Sunday, May 24, 2015

Sunday Inspiration

Thinking of a master plan?
I haven't posted in a quite a while and a lot of that has to do with what I've been going through lately.  In the time that I've been absent from the blogging scene I've been through so much and I finally feel like I'm getting back to being happy...not that mask that I put on every day for the public but honestly and truly happy.   Life is funny (sometimes in the way that's not literally funny).  The best way that I can describe what I've gone through in the past 6 months is like being a beginner swimmer and a strong current sweeps you out into the ocean where there is no land in sight.  You can't gain any footing and wave after wave is crashing into you and you have no idea if they're pushing you out further or if you're getting closer to land.  What's worse is that no one notices.  Scary right?  That was me and I'm sure I'm not the only person in history that's been through something similar so enough of the talk and let's get to how I got out of it.  Actually, it's more like how I got through it.

1.  Realize no one is coming to save you.  As cynical as it may sound it's true in most situations.  I'm not saying that no one will help I am simply saying that you have to work for it and you have to want it.  As John Heywood said, 'You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink'.  Plenty of people tried to help but I had to want it.

2.  Be aware of yourself.  We all want to be number one but there comes a time where you have to realize that you can't be number one at everything.  We're told that we can be anything we want to be. We should have also been told we can't be everything.  Admit what you're bad at and then focus on what you're good at.  Don't waste your time doing something that you aren't good at.  Don't bullsh*t yourself.

And finally the best advice I received from a friend (and back to the swimming comparison)...


3.  Stop swimming against the current.  What?! What my friend meant is that you're wasting your time.  You're tiring yourself out and getting nowhere.  Eventually you are going to drown so stop.  The mission is not to get out of the situation, the mission is to deal with it, learn from it, and use what you learned when that current gets you to where you are going.


Everything that you go through isn't happening for nothing.  And yes it all does seem to happen at once but why not get all these lessons in at once?  I learned a lot about myself and abilities in the last 6 months.  I'm still learning.  So when you feel like you're at the end of your rope hang on and focus.  You don't win some and lose some. You win some and learn some, but should you not learn your lesson bet on the fact that you will repeat.  I know my post won't save the world but I hope that it at least helps one person that's struggling.  Thank you for reading.



Monday, November 10, 2014

Varekai

Varekai means wherever in the Romany language.  The story of Varakai is a re-imagining of the Greek myth of the Fall of Icarus.  In the story after Icarus falls he lands in a forest of wonderfully strange creatures. His fall itself is particularly spectacular. The creatures are colorful, whimsical and yet strangely organic.  Eiko Ishioka did a beautiful job designing these costumes.
Each act was so precise and exciting. In between acts during  what I assume are costume changes and set rearrangements are small acts of comical relief. My favorite of these acts were Ne Me Quitte Pas.  This act is simply the male clown character lip synching all while chasing the spotlight.  My second favorite act is the Russian Swings. In this act performers are propelled by a Russian swing and from that swing they tumble through the air onto a net. They jump from swing to swing as well. It is in this act that the rousing music begins and it signals the end of the show.
All in all this show is magnificent. If you get the chance to go I would honestly recommend it.  I have a whole new appreciation for the human body and imagination and what they can accomplish together.  Bravo!
Also my son went as well (yep my 3 month old) and he enjoyed it. He eventually went to sleep after about 15 minutes but during the portion that he did see he was thoroughly amused.
 

Tuesday, September 16, 2014

Update

I know it's been such a long time but motherhood has kept me super busy.  I was due July 7, 2014 but my little one was so cozy that he decided to come exactly one week after his due date on July 14, 2014.  I wanted to wait until after I went back to work to start blogging.

Motherhood has been awesome for me.  Aidan is a very calm and happy baby.  He sleeps majority of the night and he is a very healthy 2 month old.  He coos and laughs.  He likes when I sing and dance (even when it's bad).

Other than constantly admiring my baby and working not much else has been happening.  I plan to begin blogging on a regular basis again since I'm pretty well accustomed to life with a baby now. Well I'm glad to be back and thanks for reading.

Oh and Aidan says 'Hey'.

Thursday, May 1, 2014

Be Fearless

Fear-an unpleasant emotion caused by the belief that something or someone is dangerous, likely to cause pain, or a threat.

How often do we let fear get in the way of us accomplishing what we dream of?  If  you're anything like me fear and doubt permeate your thoughts on a daily basis.  A few weeks ago I spoke with an old colleague of mine who I hadn't seen in years.  While catching up she inquired about a few major opportunities that I had been presented with in the past.  I summed up those inquiries with a simple 'I passed them up'.  Disappointing yes, but what was more disappointing were my reasons for never pursuing those opportunities.  I had become someone who not only let fear permeate her thoughts but I allowed fear to control what I chose to do.  I can't change what happened then and I can't change the fact that I get scared (especially with motherhood on the horizon).  However, I can change how I use that fear.

What do you mean 'use' fear?
In a previous blog post (Words to Live By) I mentioned that fear should motivate you.  Fear isn't always a deterrent.  Listen to that fear and often you'll find that it's a sign that you're doing something right.  Now this isn't to say just go living recklessly and putting your self in harm's way.  That's different and it's called stupid.  Just joking, but I don't want anyone going out and living life that way, it's harmful.


Thursday, March 13, 2014

February Favorites

I know I'm late but better late than never, right?

I've been very busy moving and preparing for the arrival of our bouncing baby boy. So now that I've moved (haven't decorated yet) I guess I can get back to blogging and living my life (jokes). 

So without further ado here are my February favorites. 



  • Shea Moisture Yucca & Boabab Thickening Growth Milk
  • ORS Edge Control
  • Neutrogena Make-Up Remover Towelettes
  • Poshe Fast Drying Topcoat
  • NK Nail Enamel in Bubble Gum
  • Nexxus Humectress Ultimate Moisture Conditioner
  • Dr. Bronner's 18-in-1 Magic Soap Citrus Scent
  • Organix Repairing Awapuhi Ginger Shampoo
  • St. Ives Skin Renewing Body Lotion
  • Olay Ultra Moisture Body Wash with Shea Butter
Hope you enjoyed.  Thank you for reading. 


Thursday, February 13, 2014

OOTD: Seeing Red

It's been pretty cold freezing here lately.  Okay I may be exaggerating but for South Carolinians snow and ice is unusual.  Well due to the snow and ice we are being asked to stay inside because quite frankly we (majority of us) don't know how deal with this weather.  You should see the accidents.

Anyways I decided to brave the cold on Tuesday and get some work done at the office as well as run a few errands.  This is what I wore:


Top: Belk / Skirt: Forever 21 / Necklace: Juicy Couture / Bracelet: Charlotte Russe / Watch: Thrifted  / Shoes:  Old Navy


This is what it looked like outside of our apartment yesterday.  This is a picture of a very busy street in the city that I live in and it was completely covered in ice and snow.  :(  



Thanks for reading.  Stay safe and warm. 


Thursday, February 6, 2014

Coming Soon

Lately I've been suffering from a severe cold and it's quite frankly been kicking my butt.  However, I did want to at least post today so that everyone would know that I haven't fallen off of the blogging wagon.  I do have a few new posts that should be up shortly.  


Coming Soon:
-More Outfit of the Days
-January Favorites
-Skincare Routine
-Advice Pieces
And more more

Thank you for reading.

Friday, January 31, 2014

Ootd: Cold & Gray


This week here in the south we got a good bit of cooler weather. As pretty as it is I really do not like snow or cold weather for that matter. However, during the past few days I have gotten a chance to wear a few of my recently purchased sweaters. Here's a look at my outfit of the day and my messy closet.









Sweater: Old Navy / Pants: Dots / Ring: Gift / Bracelet: Thrifted / Earrings: Gift / Scarf:  Walmart / Boots:  ??? (Long Time Ago)

Thanks for reading, I hope you enjoyed. 

Thursday, January 30, 2014

What's In My Bag?

I've always loved "What's in my Bag" posts.  I'm always so curious to see what everyone else carries in their bags.  

I work full-time and when I'm not at work I'm generally either out with friends eating or shopping.  I end up spending hours away from apartment so I need to be able to take quite a few things with me.  I got my bag from Marshall's (I believe it was about $30) and I got it just so that I could have an everyday bag that's big enough to carry everything that I need (sadly my lovely Michael Kors had to be decommissioned).  I like designer bags but I refuse to purchased a blatant knock off therefore I picked this bag on a whim and it hasn't let me down yet.   Now to check out what's in my bag. 











As I've stated this bag is from Marshall's and it's very sturdy and spacey, I love it.  Inside there's a Bodycology Blackberry Vanilla hand lotion (smells delicious), my Victoria's Secret mini-makeup bag (it holds my lipsticks, blotting papers, face powder, nail color of the moment, lip liners, etc.), a hair tie, Carmex chapstick (the only on that works for me), Extra Strength Tylenol, my wallet, Dove deodorant, my keys, my card holder, car charger, my planner (featured in Advice:  Planning), my journal,  and some pens.   Generally my phone is also in my bag.


What are some things that are in your bag?

Thanks for reading. 


Wednesday, January 29, 2014

Mani Moment #1

So I'm trying a few new things and dabbling a little more in style and beauty.  I only hope that you all enjoy these types of posts as much as my other posts. I'll be working very hard to bring new content to this blog everyday.  So without further ado here's my mani of the moment.




The color is Chili by Revlon.  It's their Top Speed fast dry nail enamel.  It's an orange red which I absolutely love.  


Hope you enjoyed. 




Tuesday, January 28, 2014

Weekend Haul

So this weekend I went in search of maternity clothing because last week there was a constant struggle to fit into my regular clothes for work.  Honestly I was hoping that I wouldn't start getting bigger until the weather got warmer because then I could wear dresses.  Well, it looks like that will not be happening and the time for maternity clothes is now.

I decided  to try Old Navy since I had about 3 of those Super Cash tickets that are redeemable between January 21 - 29, 2014.  I wasn't really successful in finding maternity pants but I did come out with some very cute things and I also got some very useful advice from another expectant mother.  Check out what I bought.


Monday, January 27, 2014

OOTD: Patterns & Jewel Tones

Long time no post....lately I've been without my computer and camera and it's been so tough.  My phone is great but updating the blog is treacherous.  Well now that my computer is back up and running, I can't say the same for my camera (but my phone will do your now), I can get back to posting regularly.  Here's what I'm wearing today.




Top: Dots / Skirt: Dots / Shoes: Old Navy / Watch:  Thrifted / Bracelet:  Charlotte Russe / Necklace:  Alloy

Hope you enjoyed.  

Friday, January 10, 2014

This Week In Retrospect: Sneak Peek



This week has been full of surprises and a little panic.  I feel like I'm finally back to taking blogging seriously even with all of the fatigue and morning sickness (aka anytime sickness).  However, yesterday was the probably one of the scariest days of my life.  I had to leave my job early to go see my doctor for an emergency ultrasound because I believed that I was having a miscarriage (I decided to spare you all the details).  I was so scared that I may have lost my precious little bundle however when they checked mommy and baby were just fine. Needless to say I was overjoyed.  I even got to see my little 'lemon baby' and now I'd like to share with you the first glimpse of baby Smith.

He's Chillin'

I'm glad to be back to blogging and I'm eternally grateful for the health of my baby.  I hope everyone has a great weekend.  

Thanks for reading.  XOXO

Thursday, January 9, 2014

Advice: Planning

"Plans are nothing; planning is everything."
-Dwight D. Eisenhower



Life is hectic and that's a fact that we all know.  Changes come up every minute and just when you think you have it all mapped out it's generally at those times that you come to a roadblock.  However, if you're looking to increase you productivity, get organized, or make the most of your free time planning is a great way to accomplish your goals.   So where do you start?  For those who are just beginning I'd like to share a few tips that have helped me.

My choice tools for planning. 
1.  Reserve a block of time during your day for planning.
For myself, this is usually at around 6:30 in the morning as I am having my cup of tea.  You can choose to map out your day whenever you please but I suggest doing this either the night before or first thing in the morning.

2.  Choose the tool that works best for you.
Whether it's an app on your phone or a planner just make sure to have something on hand that makes your tasks for the day visual.


3.  Take it day by day.
There's nothing wrong with planning ahead (monthly/annually) and I do especially when I know I have appointments, meetings, or deadlines to keep. However, my detailed planning is most effective when I list my 'to-dos' on a daily basis.  It helps me focus.

4. Mark things off.
When you've completed a task mark through it.  It's helpful to see what you accomplished and how much you can accomplish.

5.  Take it easy.
Planning is a tool for you to use to help you not stress you out.  Don't worry if you don't complete a task on the day you planned to just add it to the next day's list.  Planning is a guide and for the most part your guide is pliable.

As I always say change is inevitable and everything that we plan does not always come to fruition.  Planning is not to be mistaken with setting out a hardcore plan for your day.  It should be seen as more of a guide for your day.  Planning is a means to help you stay focused and accomplish your goals.  I hope this helps.


Thank you for reading. XOXO


Wednesday, January 8, 2014

Tasty Tales: Creamy Hot Cocoa

One of my favorite treats during the winter is a nice cup of creamy hot cocoa.  Here in South Carolina the past few days have been very cold, not as cold in some other parts of the world but to us it was freezing.  So what better to do than sit down with some friends and enjoy a nice hot cup of cocoa?

Today I bring you my recipe for creamy hot chocolate, I hope you enjoy this decadent treat.



For a special added treat I tip-toed over to one of my favorite blogs The Simply Luxurious Life for a whipped cream topping recipe.

Ingredients
1/2 cup of heavy whipping cream
1/2 tablespoon granulated sugar
1/4 teaspoon of vanilla extract

Make the whipping cream by mixing the cream, sugar, and vanilla until peaks form.  Refrigerate until ready to use.

Ingredients (makes 4 servings)
1/3 cup of cocoa powder
3/4 cup of white sugar
1 pinch of salt
1/3 cup of water
3 1/2 cup of milk
3/4 teaspoon of vanilla extract
1 splash of heavy whipping cream (optional)

Directions
1.  Boil water
2. Combine cocoa, sugar, and salt in a saucepan and blend in boiling water. Bring the mixture to a light boil for 1-2 minutes (don't forget to stir so that it does not burn).
3. Stir in milk and heat until hot, but don't boil.
4.  Add splash of heavy whipping cream. (optional)
5.  Remove from heat and add vanilla.
6.  Now serve and enjoy.


Thanks for reading.  XOXO




Wednesday, January 1, 2014

Happy New Year!




Happy New Year!

This past year has had it's ups and downs. I've accomplished so much and I'd like to thank everyone who provided encouragement and support. I hope that we can go into this year with a sense of renewal and a vibrant outlook on life.  I love you all and I look forward to sharing this year and all that it brings with you.

Remember that you are of infinite worth. You can't win them all and you weren't made to kill yourself trying. Struggle and hardship is universal and not for your own personal eternal ownership. We experience pain but we have to remember to feel it then let it go in order to grow.  We are stronger than we know. Let this year and every day signify a new beginning. Be you, be strong, and be happy.

For those in pursuit of their dreams be bold and unshaken!

Monday, December 23, 2013

Something New

So as many of you have noticed my blog received a much needed upgrade.  Thanks to the lovely and talented Maria Isabel my blog now looks a lot more professional.  She is truly talented and I appreciate everything that she has done for me and this blog.  You can find out more about her and her completely awesome blog designs at http://misabel5.blogspot.com/.

If you're in the market for spectacular blog design please look her up.



Wednesday, December 11, 2013

Invisible Child

Generally I reserve Wednesday's for a Fit Chick post but while prowling the status updates on my Facebook timeline I came across a story in the New York Times that just grabbed my attention and would not let go.  The article is called "Invisible Child-Girl in The Shadows:  Dasani's Homeless Life" written by Andrea Elliott (photographs by Ruth Fremson).  Dasani's Homeless Life is the tale of 11 year old Dasani, her everyday struggle in an ever-changing city and her fight to overcome a life riddled with homelessness.

This story is moving, sad, filled with hope, and nonetheless needs to be told.  Along with Dasani there are millions of other homeless and hungry children that need their stories to be told.  This article gives us a small glimpse into their lives.  Their stories and circumstances may be different but they all are just as heart-wrenching.   I encourage as many as possible to read this article, it is poignant and beautifully written.

Girl in The Shadows:  Dasani's Homeless Life 



Thank you for reading.

Photos courtesy of nytimes.com


Tuesday, December 10, 2013

Beauty Bit: The Perfect Nude

One of the few things that I've always had a hard time finding in my never-ending search for all things that are pretty is the perfect nude nail polish.  Well,  I'd like everyone to know that I've finally found one that I love.  It's by NYC and it's called Fashion Safari.



 It's all I've been wearing on my nails.  It's just perfect for the office and it's very classy. Also, it only cost me a little over $1.  It was an awesome deal.  It only took two coats to achieve that all-over even coverage that I love (even with my clumsy technique) and it actually does dry pretty quickly.  So if you ladies are looking for a great nude polish I'd say that this is it, well at least in my book.


Thanks for reading.
XOXO





Monday, December 9, 2013

Support Cassy Renee

"A really great talent finds its happiness in execution."
-Johann Wolfgang von Goethe


Every so often in life we are fortunate enough to come in contact with people who are intelligent, talented, and an agent of positivity.  While pursuing my undergraduate degree at Columbia College I had such an opportunity when I met Cassy Renee.  She is an awesome friend and as I've stated she is insanely talented.  She sings and after putting in so much hard work to garner a local following she is finally ready to begin recording in the studio.  She needs to raise $2000 by the end of March and she needs our help doing that.  You can help her by going to http://www.gofundme.com/5ndgwk.  No donation is too small or unappreciated.  Thank you.






Think I'm being biased...check her out for yourself.



Thanks for reading.

XOXO