Fear-an unpleasant emotion caused by the belief that something or someone is dangerous, likely to cause pain, or a threat.
How often do we let fear get in the way of us accomplishing what we dream of? If you're anything like me fear and doubt permeate your thoughts on a daily basis. A few weeks ago I spoke with an old colleague of mine who I hadn't seen in years. While catching up she inquired about a few major opportunities that I had been presented with in the past. I summed up those inquiries with a simple 'I passed them up'. Disappointing yes, but what was more disappointing were my reasons for never pursuing those opportunities. I had become someone who not only let fear permeate her thoughts but I allowed fear to control what I chose to do. I can't change what happened then and I can't change the fact that I get scared (especially with motherhood on the horizon). However, I can change how I use that fear.
What do you mean 'use' fear?
In a previous blog post (
Words to Live By) I mentioned that fear should motivate you. Fear isn't always a deterrent. Listen to that fear and often you'll find that it's a sign that you're doing something right. Now this isn't to say just go living recklessly and putting your self in harm's way. That's different and it's called stupid. Just joking, but I don't want anyone going out and living life that way, it's harmful.
